I recently wrote a post about “breaking rapport,” with lots of theory and quotes from PUAs. Here is a follow up where I reuse some of the quotes from my last post, and combine them with some specific examples from Vicky, Christina, Barcelona (a film by Woody Allen). The scene I will focus on is…
Category: Theory
Breaking Rapport as Part of Push/Pull
I want to talk about a concept called “Breaking Rapport,” and how breaking rapport is used to create attraction, as a part of push/pull (a mega concept in Game). And I’ll provide several good references and examples to help the discussion along. Here is Krauser, demonstrating “breaking rapport” with obvious body language (one of many…
Good Game is About Reactions and Responses
Here is an idea that’s been kicking around in my head: Game isn’t as much about “what you do,” as it is about how you respond to her reactions to what you do. That is the main thing that separates beginners (that focus on techniques and lines) from really seductive men (that focus on feelings…
The Sequence + BrownDaygamer’s Vegas Daygame Jaunt
This is a story about BrownDaygamer and his 2021 daygame “jaunt” to the completely filthy fine city of Las Vegas. “If I look at the trip from non/daygame lens then I had a great time exploring the casinos, having some good food, living the Vegas experience of a city that never sleeps and winning some…
2020 Stats, Braddock, and More “Big Things”
365 days later I am in the same coffee place as last year, and again, I want write about “Big Things.” I want to talk about Game, and Girls, and Goals. To get started I will dive into my own 2020 “stats.” I’ll do that, while keeping my eye on my aim of making this…
Her Puzzles, Her Surrender | +1 Japan
I have a new story to share – and it is, in fact, a lay report. I am still turning her (and the story) over in my mind. It has been a proper seduction (perhaps by both of us). And each part of the process – the pickup, messaging, the dates, and the time in…
“What Every Man Wants” (From The Deuce)
HBO ran this series called The Deuce – a show about New York City in the late 1970s and early 1980s. It was about bartenders, and hookers and pimps, and cops, and the first porn stars, and the mafia… all those characters interacting with each other. There are also some fascinating examples of the sexual…
Who the Hell is Pat Stedman – Masterclass Review
I am always on the lookout for a point of view that really cuts into what I might call “Game,” and Pat Stedman gets it. He stands out for me as one of the voices I’ve learned the most from in the last few years. Pat has a way of wading into aspects of Game…
“Lolita” | Origins of Female Sexuality
I just finished reading Lolita, by Nabokov. I was surprised to learn that the term “Lolita” didn’t quite mean what I thought it to mean. I was close, but not exactly right – which made the book a more wild read. When we take a look at a story, the context of our lives will…
Big Things in 2020 | I Moved to Japan
Today is New Year’s Day. I have had a plan in mind for almost two years now… and that plan included sitting where I am sitting now, and writing a post something like this one. Right now, I am in a coffee place in major city in Japan. I have done this many times before,…