Category: Theory

“What Every Man Wants” (From The Deuce)

HBO ran this series called The Deuce – a show about New York City in the late 1970s and early 1980s. It was about bartenders, and hookers and pimps, and cops, and the first porn stars, and the mafia… all those characters interacting with each other. And I learned a bit about the dance between…



Who the Hell is Pat Stedman – Masterclass Review

I am always on the lookout for a point of view that really cuts into what I might call “Game,” and Pat Stedman gets it. He stands out for me as one of the voices I’ve learned the most from in the last few years. Pat has a way of wading into aspects of Game…



“Lolita” | Origins of Female Sexuality

I just finished reading Lolita, by Nabokov. I was surprised to learn that the term “Lolita” didn’t quite mean what I thought it to mean. I was close, but not exactly right – which made the book a more wild read. When we take a look at a story, the context of our lives will…



Big Things in 2020 | I Moved to Japan

Today is New Year’s Day. I have had a plan in mind for almost two years now… and that plan included sitting where I am sitting now, and writing a post something like this one. Right now, I am in a coffee place in major city in Japan. I have done this many times before,…



Part I: Mystery’s Seven Hour Rule and LMR

In September, I closed a 20 year girl while on a trip to Japan. We’ll call her Miss Nervous. She was a “long lead” I had met in America two months earlier. All greater claims of my ego aside… fucking a girl 26 years younger than me, one that lives in another country, was a…




White Girl Month

It started like this: August is White Girl Month. Except, I had some kind of goal and I didn’t hit it before I had to leave for Japan that month. So I re-committed for last month and it became: October is White Girl Month. My commitment was to approach 20 white girls via this art…



“Hello Motherf*ckers” | Satori PUA “Daygame Decoded” Review

Two years ago I was looking at some statistics about my blog and some related websites, and this name “Satori PUA” came up in the tools I was using. He is a daygamer. I have been exposed to a lot of Game over the years and I’d never heard of him. I was curious, and…




Types, Truth, Bad Vibes, and the Redpill Attachment Style

At the level of theory, the theme of the year for me is that we are different Types of men, we want different Types of girls, and the Context in which a given man tries to accomplish his goals is crucial to making sense of given situation. We are not all the same (NAMALT/NAWALT) and…




How to Pickup Girls, by Eric Weber | Book Review

And now, for all the street hustlers and daygamers out there, I will post a review of a surprisingly interesting and relevant book: How to Pickup Girls, by Eric Weber. The copy I have of this book was published in 1970… a few years before I was born. I bought it as I thought it…




The Three Phases of the Seducer | Hans Comyn

My new favorite “player” to study is a guy named Hans Comyn. He has a lot to say, but this post will focus on a concept where he describes the Three Phases of the Seducer. His thinking here helps map out some familiar behavior from guys that are just getting good with girls, a BIG…