Category: Theory

Masturbation Starvation Diet

This is an explanation for a reference I’ve been making in my posts here and there… about my “Masturbation Starvation Diet.” “Oh yeah, guys… and stop masturbating.” — Some pickup coach, circa 2007 I have heard that a few times as I have studied game over the years, but I think the first time was…



Extreme Social Savvy || 9 More

I went back and listened to Krauser’s Womanizer’s Bible video product again this week. “Mind wank,” as Krauser would say. All theory. And very good thinking, I might add. Over the summer, something was up with my “game.” I was working hard, going nowhere. And Yohami was burying me in “stop the madness” comments about…



Vampire Theory

Vampire Theory… I love the vampire analogy for older men and younger women. (I wrote this as a comment on TheAntiFeminist.com… but liked it enough I’ll post here as well.) The classic “vampiric exchange,” is the ancient vampire, consuming the virgin… But she kinda wants it to happen. He needs her naivete and the tonic…



My Experience with Non-Sexual Social Proof (State Booster)

Going back to 2006, when I read The Game, this concept of Social Proof was very interesting. After many years, I have a different take than I originally had on that concept, and how it relates to game. I won’t reference my copy of that book, but as I remember it, there was this idea,…



Role Models || Text Game || Volume

As I wake up the sleeping daygame beast inside me, I’m thinking back to the streak I was on in early 2015 (before I turned my own ship over and spent a year barely treading water). I was in Japan in early 2015 (where the women of my dreams are from), a bit obsessed with…



Performers, Critics, and Fans

This is a concept I’ve been kicking around my head (and in conversation) for a while now: Performers, Critics, and Fans This is about game, and the roles we play, and how they interact. I’m going to lay it out here, so I can refer to it easily. As a guy, you’re a PERFORMER. You…



Work vs Being a Man: Red Pill Essay

Reading Fire in the Belly, by Sam Keen. Great read. I’m about 25% through this book (and I will read every page), and here he’s talking about the role of work in a man’s life. Not of service, or of developing his craft, or how he spends his time… but about his paycheck. And all…




Tyler Durden, Unstifled… a letter to Mark

Hey Mr Mark, >> –>Exactly! All I would add is you have to embrace the uncomfortableness, maybe even seek it out. When you are comfortable being uncomfortable that is when I think you start gaining mastery. At that point wherever the river/ocean spits you out you know you will be fine and embrace the waiting…



BadBoyPUA vs “Asking Permission”

I was listening to some video product from Badboy. He’s talking at a seminar of some kind, and he brings a guy up from the audience. The guy plays “the girl,” and Badboy demonstrates what happens when you “ask permission:” BadBoy: Hey, hey, would you like to go there and sit down? Girl: Ahh, no….



“Red Pill” (Vin DiCarlo) and Approach Anxiety

From Vin DiCarlo’s program Red Pill, which has a lot of content on Daygame. He and one of his partners, Brian, discuss AA. Great stuff… Brian is definitely legit. Brian: Approach anxiety isn’t a signal saying, “don’t approach.” Approach anxiety is a signal saying “do!” Brian: I only approach women that make my heart beat…