Miss Glasses the Virgin, Is a Super-Squirter
Here’s the run down… I supposed the bad news is, she’s still a virgin (and I will not have a new notch in August). The good news is, she had a very good time tonight… many “firsts,” including discovering that she is a super-squirter. Half my room is soaked. And I had a great time, even though I smell bizarre right now.
We met-up tonight around 6 PM. She has class tomorrow AM, so I figured early dinner, my place, and hopefully, a deflowering+++. That was the plan.
To begin, she tried to fuck up the date… twice.
First with the sex:
MISS GLASSES: I don’t feel like crossing too many lines today…
NASH: : ]
NASH: You’re cute
She made this comment after I said something via WeChat about kissing her. She said, “Me too!,” and then gave me that message about “not crossing lines.”
To be honest, I was pretty amped to fuck this girl and it probably showed a bit. I like her very much. I do. She is YHT, and all that, and sexy and delicious beyond the surface characteristics or the novelty of a virgin teenager (which is pretty fucking novel). And I want the experience of bringing her across the threshold. Yes, I do. I don’t think I was “teenage horny” about it, but I bet I was a bit keen. I think responding that she was cute was an okay way to deal with her comment.
That was it. No debate, I didn’t go logical at all. I didn’t say I would or would not fuck her. Just “you’re cute.” Okay. Moving on…
Then she tried to cancel entirely:
MISS GLASSES: what about we meet tomorrow… I am so tired today and I just want to sleep…
This ^ was three hours before the date. SMH.
At this point I was trying to back off of my more-than-sincere desire to penetrate that little thing… but not back off so much that I would let the date slip away.
Some things come down to the strength of your personality. This was classic behavior for a girl that knows she is about to get fucked. I’ve seen it before. She is doing a little of this and a little of that… trying to shake off the impending lay. This is womb management. I get it, but this is not my first rodeo. And I’m not Captain of the Virgin Preservation Squad.
NASH: Ahhhh, cute tired girl.
NASH: : ]
NASH: I have a plan for tomorrow…
NASH: And our reservation is for tonight
NASH: 1. Go take a nap
NASH: 2. Wake up at 5…
NASH: 3. Meet me for a fun night
NASH: We’ll have you home by 9:30ish
20 minutes later…
MISS GLASSES: Okay…
MISS GLASSES: see you then
Done. I like that.
Okay, that hurdle was then behind me. I got one more message from her around 5 PM that I thought might be her weaseling out, but it was just a random cute emoticon. Date was on.
Before I move on… I will say, I don’t want to under-emphasize how often girls do stuff like this… try to derail the date. I think it is truly subconscious, but it’s ubiquitous girl-behavior when the deal is about to close. She’s trying to buck you off, right before you hit the “8 seconds” mark (bull riding analogy) and get proper a “score” (so to speak).
“A woman wants to lose to a superior Frame, but she needs to test that it really is superior.”
— Tom Torero, Street Hustle
I do have a plan for tomorrow – a reunion date with Miss Thick – that was no lie. She is back from China tonight, and she came after me yesterday, setting up a date for Thursday, so that is all locked down for tomorrow. And she is the best lover I have had in years… I am in awe of what she and I are like sexually. It’s fantastic.
But more importantly… she ALSO did this kind of thing. This derailing shit. Pre-sex shit tests. It’s in my post about sex with her. She tried to stop seeing me — twice — before I got her into bed. I passed those tests and she and I became lovers. She has never tested me since. And it has been epic/beautiful since then… because of me. Because I successfully overrode her derail attempts.
Those were very important shit tests to be passed. And I had big returns because I was nimble enough to keep the train on tracks. This is a big part of the actual work of game. These crucial moments when your will as a player points the seduction toward glory… or it fizzles into something not worth talking about.
Perhaps I will look back at tonight and feel the same way about Miss Glasses’ little tests today as I do about how I handled Miss Thick’s tests back then. Tonight was about more than our dinner and romp through the sheets… it was a foundation for what might come. And if tonight didn’t happen… maybe nothing would come of this.
But tonight did happen. And it was memorable.
We meet up at 6 PM… and she looked simple and cute. Those bangs. Her glasses. A lululemon style shirt. Jeans. Sneakers. Nerdy and simple on the outside, but I felt that same big smile creep across my face. I like this girl.
As I stepped into hug her… she gave me an endless, deep, emotional hug. Just melted into my chest. I and held her for about two or three minutes, whispering greetings into her ear, before we started the walk to dinner.
Dinner… was fantastic. A place I have taken many, many girls. The place I took Miss Macau the night I fucked her.
Car back to my place. She was very into the cats. 10 minutes of hanging out, playing with them. And then I pushed her up against the wall… and she went hot and tremble-y right away. She is a very emotional girl. Very intense, in a quiet, introverted, feminine way.
My room. And I took my time. She was revving up, but I was going slow. I was pretty convinced she was going to get fucked tonight. I was in no rush.
Got her naked. She was shaking and breathing shallow breaths. I asked if she was nervous, she said she was.
She did that thing again where she would close her eyes and turn her head to the side. That is her kind of shutting me out, as I see it. She is kind of “going away” there. And a lot of that is fine by me. But I made a point of making her open her eyes a few times. Making her look at me. Telling her I wanted her to be “here,” with me. And she would do it. And it was qualitatively different, richer, when she would look me in the eyes.
She is very young. This is a serious game. And it’s all new to her.
So then I go down on her for the first time… and she rev’s to about 8000 rpm right away. And… she squirts.
I’m licking her clit, and I get a blast of hot, bitter “girl juice” on my chin. I know what that is all about, and she doesn’t seem to even know what is going on… she is too inexperienced to be self-conscious. She was blissfully ignorant about the mess she was making, and how rare this actually is for a girl’s first time.
So I just kept going, staying at her clit to keep that squirt-love out of my mouth (for the most part). This is a gnarly business, gentlemen. No place for the faint of heart. Lock and load, or stay at home.
And then… she squirted, and squirted, and squirted. Gushed, as the say. Flooded.
And I have never penetrated this girl (I’m sorry to say). So this was all clit-based squirting. Miss Thick can do that too, but it’s usually g-spot stuff that makes Miss Thick squirt. This one, full water-works, just from her clit. I have never put anything inside this girl… not yet.
I asked her how she was doing, and she muttered something affirmative from behind closed eyes. So… more.
I got up and grabbed a towel to put under her… she was at the edge of the bed, and that area was already soaked. Squirt, squirt, squirt. I’m on my knees, with “spray” all over my chin, my neck, her thighs, my chest, my arms. And I’m kneeling in a small lake of the stuff at this point.
I give her a break… come up, kiss her, and hold her. She’s exhausted, but a happy girl. She has never had anyone eat her pussy before. Never had an orgasm before. Certainly never squirted. I know Yohami says girls often bullshit on “this is my first time,” but… once again… I am inclined to believe the girl. Maybe I’m a fool. Or definitely I am a fool, and maybe this is proof of it?
Any other girl… I would have held her for a while (as she had just come for five minutes straight)… and then… fucked her. God, I wanted to tonight.
And I figured it was on with this one too. So I said, “I’m ready to put my cock in you, you ready.” And she got very worried and tense looking and her mouth was screwed up in a wave of emotions… so I backed off. I not-so-dry fucked her, rubbing my tool on her clit, and even that worried her. But she settled down. And started to get into a bit. I taught her a few things I like.
Who knows if I’ll ever see her again, but if I do… we’re training her.
She still won’t suck my cock, but I won’t make that an issue until after we fuck. I could have made her rub me out, but… I’d just as soon be violently sexual for Miss Thick tomorrow (it’s been 16 days since I’ve had an orgasm). I wanted the lay… but I’ll save my “O” for when I take her V-card. I told her so.
And we laid around, naked… and it seems there was, in fact, something a little special about the feel of her teenage body against mine. A lot special. She was back to high-emotion hugging me, holding me, and majorly passionate kisses.
I made her squirt one more time… soaking myself and my bed once again. And then we cooled down. She got up. Went to the bathroom (she was fascinated that her clit was swollen). Came back, and got dressed.
I fed her a couple of bites of ice cream while we waited for a car to pick her up and take her back to her host-family.
Now… it gets a little more complicated starting Saturday. She is moving 30 miles south of the city. Her school is there. She’ll be in a new host-family. The logistics are going to get harder.
But I think we might have her fully on the line now. Maybe I am fooling myself, but she and I have some real emotional-history at this point, and some quality intimacy… to the tune of soaked sheets. She really enjoyed it. Told me several times how amazing it felt… and it’s hard to fake a squirt session.
So… I think we have a date for Sunday. If she can take the train up here, I’ll take her out, keep her overnight, and try to fuck her. I would love to sleep overnight with this girl… she’s the right type for that. The emotional girls are great sleeping partners. Ummm. And then, I’ll drive her home the next day.
Longterm, this could be great… as she’s out of sight, out of the city, and I can date her once a week/so. And I love the idea of fucking her on a weeknight… and then driving her to school. “Have a good day in school, dear,” with my tongue in her mouth and my hand on her ass. So perverse and sexy. I love it. I want that experience.
Wow. What a night.
And… at dinner, I had to explain a lot of things to her. She knows nothing about Latin culture. She doesn’t know much about much… she’s just out of high school. And… I liked it. It was great.
I know so many guys that want a “peer.” They say they want to have the same interests. That she needs to have a good job. Or has to have read the right books. That’s not me at all.
I love how different she and I are. And it was really charming to be “sexy daddy” tonight. In every aspect. It was hot. I loved it. I want more of her. I want more of this experience.
And for now… I will move the sheets (which have now been washed) out of the washer, put them in the dryer. And I will take a shower… to get the acrid, bitter-smell off my body before I puff some smoke and sit on the couch and wonder, once again, if I have hallucinated the whole thing.
I’m 44 years old. I never imagined this is what I would be up to at this stage of my life. I thought I would be married with kids. I am sincerely glad I was wrong about all that. We can sleep when we’re dead.
The teenage, virgin squirt-machine had a good experience. This street-dog Regulator had a good experience tonight. That is the standard we strive to uphold. Nice work.
I am a proud man. Viva daygame.
I know Yohami says girls often bullshit on “this is my first time,” but… once again… I am inclined to believe the girl. Maybe I’m a fool. Or definitely I am a fool, and maybe this is proof of it?
I don’t believe most of the claims either, but girls do have first times just like guys do. A decent number also prefer older or more experienced guys. It’s not impossible that you found a virgin or at least highly inexperienced girl.
>> but girls do have first times just like guys do. A decent number also prefer older or more experienced guys. It’s not impossible that you found a virgin or at least highly inexperienced girl.
But Yohami did a great job at making me see how much of this posturing by the girl.
Somewhere else he says something about “don’t always take the girls side.” He’s right about that too – so many of us automatically believe and support these girls and these kinds of statements. And I notice how often I am inclined to believe her too… particularly after I’m “drunk” on the experience of being with her.
Nash is approaching slayer-tier. Watch out, world. That was expert handling of her shit tests and date derailing.
>> I know so many guys that want a “peer.” They say they want to have the same interests. That she needs to have a good job. Or has to have read the right books. That’s not me at all.
“Peers” are about the biggest boner-killer you could get for me. 25-30 year old liberal arts grads LOVE ME. I could not be less interested, even though I know how to press all the right buttons to fuck them (pretend to be a feminist, pretend to be a democrat).
>> That was expert handling of her shit tests and date derailing.
I don’t know about expert, but I’m getting better. Thanks, man. I DO believe this is some important work… and I bet guys with high notch-counts have this skill locked down. I bet we lose a LOT of girls just before they are taken, as they feel it coming… and derail the train.
In some ways, it’s good to know this is part of “womb management,” so we don’t take it personally when they do stuff like this… it’s about her womb, not you. But… YOU are the only one that can get that train back on the tracks.
And I haven’t heard many guys focus on this particular skill… I’m at a place in my game where I have to get better here, or lose more girls at the last minute.
>> “Peers” are about the biggest boner-killer you could get for me. 25-30 year old liberal arts grads LOVE ME. I could not be less interested, even though I know how to press all the right buttons to fuck them (pretend to be a feminist, pretend to be a democrat).
Yeah… I know EXACTLY what you mean here. Pre-daygame, I would meet these girls in bars… always girls with “advanced degrees.” Sometimes 2 or 3 masters degrees, etc. CPAs, MBAs, PhDs of all sorts… Powerful jobs. I could chat them up… but “boner killer” for sure.
PANCAKE… if you check this comment later… come back in and say what you DO want in a girl, as opposed to a “peer.” I’d like to hear it. What kind of relationship, if not a “peer like” relationship.
>> she just isn’t that much of a brain. she works as an admin assistant, basically, at an event firm. she definitely doesn’t have warsaw girl’s brain, and she also i don’t think has baby E’s artistic sensibility. from what i can tell, miriam is a “normal” girl when it comes to the intelligence/art part of the analysis. medium intelligence, medium to low interest and understanding of art. doesn’t like to read, doesn’t like sushi, her understanding and appreciation of highbrow culture is basically zero, as far as i can tell. hasn’t traveled much either.
This ^ is a coincidence, Riv wrote this a few days before I wrote this post, but I read his post just now. My brother Riv whom I respect deeply… he is looking for a “peer,” and this is what that looks like to me, in terms of rejecting non-peer qualities.
I’m not here to tell another player how to run his life… but I see a lot of guys that are dissatisfied with really wonderful girls… because they don’t meet “peer” status.
One more note on “peers:”
I think this is kind of shaming tactic, too. Maybe self-shaming, at times.
It’s almost the same thing as saying “age appropriate,” as in some 30+ woman judging me for dating 25 yr olds, and saying I should be dating “age appropriate girls” — which would be 37? 40? Yeah… no thanks. Fuck that frame. Even though Miss Lips was 37 and was a great lay and short term fling… I don’t think she would be a good longterm fit for me… even though she was close to “peer” status.
I had several friends, guys actually, that would say I needed to be dating girls “at my level.” Garbage.
I want a girl that is killing it at HER GAME, not one that is good at my game. I want “different,” not “equal.” I want feminine… and that trumps her “resume” any day.
It’s about feeling completed by the girl – because of the need to be “understood”. That happens when you’re not operating through a more pure manliness archetype cough – alpha – cough, so you’re not fully expressed as a man, you need the manhood to be appreciated through the proxy you built for it.
Congrats on the whole thing man. Im commenting less because Im busy as hell but Im following your adventure. Respect.
>> That happens when you’re not operating through a more pure manliness archetype cough – alpha – cough, so you’re not fully expressed as a man, you need the manhood to be appreciated through the proxy you built for it.
Great comments, man. That is a good explanation for part of why men talk about wanting a peer all the time. I assume some of that wanting-a-peer is legitimate standards/qualification on a given man’s part (even if that’s not how I would personally qualify a girl)… and some other aspect of that is projection and cultural expectation and some of what you’re talking about above about him needing validation for his “stuff.”
Also… I read that cold-read you did for Riv about that girl Miriam he is so excited about:
^ Very interesting cold-read. Who knows if you’re correct, but I like the way you read the world.
Reminds me of the comments you made about my Korean Actress.
All of your comments on that post were exceptional. I learned a LOT from you on that back/forth we had. I point people to that post and your comments all the time… so they can see your thought process in action. Very good stuff there.
BTW… I met Lance Mason this month. I’ll send you a pic offline. It was very cool in person… I liked him better than I thought I would.
Thanks for stopping by, man. I hope things are well for you… and thank you again for all the coaching. Deeply grateful for what you did to supe-up my game.
“I know so many guys that want a ‘peer.’ They say they want to have the same interests. That she needs to have a good job. Or has to have read the right books. That’s not me at all.” -Nash
“It’s about feeling completed by the girl – because of the need to be ‘understood’. That happens when you’re not operating through a more pure manliness archetype cough – alpha – cough, so you’re not fully expressed as a man, you need the manhood to be appreciated through the proxy you built for it.” -Yohami
hmm, something to think about.
with miriam, we just don’t have much to talk about. you know that saying about discussing people, events or ideas — i like that says. with miriam, we are stuck just talking about people. her friends. my friends. it’s fun for a bit, but then it gets boring. i love banging her and dominating her and photographing her — and then what. let’s say i take her out to dinner. what do we talk about?
i love the idea of connecting with a girl, at all levels.
i have great conversations with warsaw girl. i like that. there’s a lot of stuff she doesn’t know about — she’s not my “peer” — but she asks a lot of great questions!
then again, maybe what bothers me even more about miriam is that she is kinda pushy. i didn’t even really realize it too much, it was yohami who noticed. now i see it. yohami says she is an “alpha female”. hmmm. maybe that’s the more annoying part. having to stay vigilant to keep her under control.
I’ve said my peace about peers, so now I’ll switch gears… and point to this:
For a quick summary… in our human relationships we have 4 basic ways of connecting with each other:
A 3D connection means that we’re connecting strongly in 3 of these areas. A 4D connection means we’re connecting in all 4 aspects.
That is an interesting way to look at how “deep” a girl is, or how deep your relationship with can be… 1D? 2D? 3D? 4D???
You might like that article, Riv.
exactly! this is what i’m talking about.
he explains it well. and the last one, the concept of sharing the same purpose, that’s a new one to me, and a very good one.
with baby E, i have a 3D relationship (almost).
with warsaw girl, also almost a 3D.
with miriam, physical and somewhat emotional. 2D max.
**that’s** what i am feeling. less of a connection.
thanks nash and thanks steve!
“To create more authentic 3D relationships in my life, the #1 key was to say no to partial matches.” -Steve Pavlina
“Getting clingy with partial matches is a surefire recipe for stuckness.” -Steve Pavlina
The point being – there’s no point on resenting a girl for not having enough dimensions.
That resentment comes for a one-itis fixation, you found a woman, now you want her to fit “the one”, so you don’t like that she has 2D instead of 11D, and now you feel trapped somehow.
Been there done that. But.
Why do you care how many dimensions of connections you have. Enjoy the connections you have, even if it’s 1D. If she’s 1D then you connect with her when you’re after that particular flavor. The girl who has more dimensions will be more versatile and you’ll be able to fit her, and enjoy her company, in more occasions. But if Miriam is 2D then enjoy her 2D until you do no more.
Abundance means that you’ll be with whoever woman you want to be at any given point and enjoy any kind of connection, and most women are 1D or 2D. Mostly when you hit on women you do because they are physically attractive.
Sure if they are smart that opens better conversations.
If they are artistically sensible that opens other areas, if you’re into that (like I do).
If their life purpose match yours then you can walk along in life for a longer period.
If you’re looking for a wife to match your 11 dimensions, then what are you doing hitting on random women. That’s not what you’re doing. You hit on her because she was hot. And she reciprocated. So enjoy that. Enjoy that she’s at least 2D. That’s at least one dimension more than most.
Just sayin ;-)
Back in omega days I could only court girls who liked poetry or had read philosophy. It was a really crappy pool of women. Then in beta days I could only court shy introvert wholesome girls who were family oriented, AND crazy intellectual types with BPD issues (just think about the kind of girl who will string along a beta in a long courtship).
I bring that up because while in scarcity, every lead matters, every girl could be the one, the amount of connections mattered a lot – matching with a girl on 4D meant she was the one (she was not). All the commonalities meant that I had a terrain where I could display my value, a value that not every girl could appreciate or understand, but she could because of all these Ds.
Which is all unadultered bs.
Because there’s one and only one metric the women use to measure, only one D, and that’s the manliness rank, or, how high you’re in the hierarchy and how well you measure there agains the other men she has access to, which is why you’ll see all these very special girls with all of their dimensions also chasing the same brainless alpha jock and dropping their panties like any other girl. Because that’s the D that matters. So all your Ds put them in function of what matters.
All the commonalities and connections mean shit because the only language is hypergamy. Dominant strong winner man wins. Every time.
So my gut feelings is that if you resent a girl because you don’t match in more than 2D, that means you have more dimensions that you’re not able to express with her, therefore you’re incomplete with her, and there lays the crux.
You have to be fully realized already, long before she enters the picture. She’s not your canvas, the world is. She’s what happens when you filled the world with you. You have to be fully there. Like a king.
>> The girl who has more dimensions will be more versatile and you’ll be able to fit her, and enjoy her company, in more occasions.
Yeah. This is my POV, exactly.
I am starting with what she has to offer… which is something, or I wouldn’t be focused on her at all. Once there… it’s about controlling the TIME. I have no reason to resent girls… only to resent myself, when I spend time I don’t want to spend.
If she’s 1D… she gets less time, probably. But that could be a glorious little 1D relationship. I’m more than cool with that.
Even if she’s “11D”… I still might only want to see her now/then… too much of a good thing.
In both cases… it’s how much TIME I want to give her. That’s it.
>> So my gut feelings is that if you resent a girl because you don’t match in more than 2D, that means you have more dimensions that you’re not able to express with her, therefore you’re incomplete with her, and there lays the crux.
>> She’s not your canvas, the world is. She’s what happens when you filled the world with you. You have to be fully there. Like a king.
Some good Yohami “Zen” stuff here.
>> Because there’s one and only one metric the women use to measure, only one D
There are, of course, TWO D’s for girls. And she is likely hypergamous about both:
— D for dollars/security/protection
— D for cock
She will chase both. But I am only offering one of those Ds. I want to be uni-DICKmensional for girls. I trade my vibe and my D for however many Ds she can offer.
“i am a proud man” i know that feel … thumbs up!
Nash congratulations again on the great progress. You’ve earned it and from what I can tell you’re on the cusp of taking things to the next level:
“I love how different she and I are. And it was really charming to be “sexy daddy” tonight. In every aspect. It was hot. I loved it. I want more of her. I want more of this experience.”
I believe you’re on to something here. To me, the most satisfying relationships with girls are where I’m the senior, experienced one and they’re much younger. Call it “sexy daddy” or paternal or whatever, but it means being the worldly experienced one and the one who leads her into experiencing a much broader and exciting world that until now she’s only dreamed about. There’s another dynamics that work of course but this is my current favorite.
It does mean having your shit together and not expecting much from the girl, other than her coming along with you for the ride and the enjoyment of her feminine energy. She’s only an enricher to your life not something that “completes” you. Seems like you’re on this track and I’m happy to see it.
>> To me, the most satisfying relationships with girls are where I’m the senior, experienced one and they’re much younger.
>> There’s another dynamics that work of course but this is my current favorite.
^ This is how I feel about almost all the girls I date. There are lots of exceptions, but I run almost every girl thru this model… if she surprises me, great. But I am never looking for that. I lead, every time, 100% of the time (and maybe 1% of the time, she surprises me).
>> It does mean having your shit together and not expecting much from the girl, other than her coming along with you for the ride and the enjoyment of her feminine energy.
I remember when I heard Lance Mason say he has never seen the inside of a girl’s place he is dating… he ALWAYS brings them to him, and his place. His world.
That ^ was a eye-opening moment when I heard that. Since then… it’s been years since I’ve seen a girls world. Always my place. My plan. My world.
It’s a good deal. I’ll take it.
>> She’s only an enricher to your life not something that “completes” you.
I think you and Yohami are in similar territory here. Fully agree.