UPDATE: It is January 4th, here in Japan (or it was, when I originally wrote this). And my one date with Miss Breakfast was three weeks ago. I had not seen her since, until just now… less than 10 minutes ago. I have this beautiful overwhelmed feeling having seen her. It feels amazing. I was…
How do you set up a date to get a girl into bed? Common wisdom says: Meet late, for “drinks.” One drink, and then maybe another in a more intimate venue. Then bounce her back to your place. Everyone knows “drink dates” are the sexy dates, right? I like Game stories that open our eyes…
I haven’t written a post like this in a long time. A “first date” post that has as many questions as answers. Here I am, years deeper into Game, in the same or similar scenarios. Am I a fool? Am I showing any skill in how I read female psychology? Have I learned anything in…
Even though she is properly Japanese, I am going to call her Aloha. I give her that name because this morning, after a long night in bed, she was naked, leaning over a table by the window, petting one of my cats as it soaked in the early morning sun… and bent over like that,…
365 days later I am in the same coffee place as last year, and again, I want write about “Big Things.” I want to talk about Game, and Girls, and Goals. To get started I will dive into my own 2020 “stats.” I’ll do that, while keeping my eye on my aim of making this…
I have a new story to share – and it is, in fact, a lay report. I am still turning her (and the story) over in my mind. It has been a proper seduction (perhaps by both of us). And each part of the process – the pickup, messaging, the dates, and the time in…
After I moved to Japan in December, I settled in and did about 20 approaches in January, I met Miss Happy, and dated her all through the months of this year when this city was a desperate ghost town. As my city opened up a little, I wanted to get back to what I love…
HBO ran this series called The Deuce – a show about New York City in the late 1970s and early 1980s. It was about bartenders, and hookers and pimps, and cops, and the first porn stars, and the mafia… all those characters interacting with each other. There are also some fascinating examples of the sexual…
I am always on the lookout for a point of view that really cuts into what I might call “Game,” and Pat Stedman gets it. He stands out for me as one of the voices I’ve learned the most from in the last few years. Pat has a way of wading into aspects of Game…
I have never gotten a girl pregnant. I have never been involved in an abortion. I have never even had a real scare with a girl. And while I am 100% pro-family, and I like kids, I’m not trying to make any babies right now. Starting a family is the right path for most men,…
