My Cock is My CEO || 8 More
I was in a great mood, but had a plan to have a drink with The Prince, so I ran a short day. A little over an hour. 8 approaches, 1 lead. I was on. Should have gone longer.
Here are some comments on the set of the day.
She… was not that cute. She was the right type, my type, but not a fine example. Relatively tall Chinese girl. As she passed me, I looked back at skinny legs moving beneath her clothes and I could imagine seeing her naked. And I liked it.
I stopped her, and noticed her skin wasn’t great. She’s not that pretty. She wasn’t that fun, either. Sounds great, right?
I delivered my line, saying I was interested in her, a little robotically. She looked a bit suspicious, which is a good read on her part… I was barely committed as I opened.
But it’s my job to be charming, even in those first few minutes when I’m working with nothing. So that’s what I did. And she became more comfortable. And she liked that I knew where her city in China is. And she liked that I was into art. And I could see her hook. The space between us became warm. All of this “dropped her into her feminine.” Which (as it does), stirred on my masculine. And then my cock got hard. We were suddenly “on.”
That is maybe the 3rd time I have even been hard while I hit on a girl. What is that about? How did she get that erection reaction out of me? Why this one?
Needless to say I was suddenly interested. I wanted to take her right then. I think she wanted it too… And I doubt that kind of thing happens to her that often. Doesn’t happen to me that often.
Yohami is giving me giving me shit about how it’s “gross” that the Filipina Mom I picked up turned out to be 36. I don’t think she’s gross at all, but I get it. As I said in that post, YHT is the standard.
But what about girls that have this power to make your cock hard? Not in bed, or during a makeout, but in the middle of a cold approach?
Or that really mediocre Online Girl I dated that one time… I had a hard cock for that entire date. She was one of the least “surface attractive” girls I’ve dated in years (she wasn’t a street pickup, online, and her pics were cuter than she was in person), but turned me on more than Miss NYC, who is maybe the hottest girl I’ve ever been out with.
This is an active mystery in my life right now. Yes, when in doubt, YHT. But my cock is my CEO. If he’s into the deal, that’s the most important deal, and we work to get it done. Once my cock is convinced, other standards don’t matter. That’s how it should be. I’m not chasing these girls for you. If I was, I would be a weak, foolish man. I’m in game for me and I know it. And my cock… is a “big” stakeholder in this game.
So… that’s why I like this girl. She did something most girls cannot. She turned me on, dead sober, on the street, with no context and without touching me. Not “visually” turned on (=high aesthetics, traditional sexiness or beauty), not “intellectually” turned on (=fascinating, interesting), but “carnally” turned on (=hard cock), without ever being sexual.
I am increasingly interested in the nuance of those different types of value in a woman. And what we look for as men as we hunt.
So this one and I are texting… Maybe a date for Monday.
Here are the rest of the sets.
Dec06.
1. Short hair. Euro? Latin? Wearing wool, great style. Late for the bus. She was pretty cold.
2. Cute Asian girl, white pants. She was into it, but I wasn’t that into her and she’s allergic to cats… cat hater. I let her go.
3. Cute Asian girl, crazy hair, powerful, bitchy-confident American. Leaving for LA.
4. Blonde, cute, ummm, smiled, shook her head and left.
5. White Euro… maybe on the phone. Very cute. Wouldn’t stop.
6. Set of the day… Made my cock hard.
7. Seattle girl, big beautiful eyes… But bad skin and teeth up close. Great chat. I let her go. She loved it.
8. Cute Asian girl… Can’t remember her now.
Viva daygame.
I’m a 100% with you on this one… I don’t think one should seek any assessment to whether the girl in question is hot and fuckable, other than from the ol’ big-headed fella in the mid-region. I have proudly banged women over 35 (they were in good shape with at least one salient feature to their bodies – such as unearthly huge tits, plus a beautiful face) and did not look back in repentance. Sometimes they will work eagerly to please you; add experience to that and you have a seasoned sex beast that will make a nineteen year-old hard body seem like a prudish ´masturbation assistant´. There’s just something about mature – and hot – women that makes the time you spend to lay them worthwhile… Maybe it’s their self-knowledge and sexual maturity. The thing is, though, they are a rare finding.
Great comments here, man.
>> nineteen year-old hard body seem like a prudish ´masturbation assistant´.
I feel this.
I once had sex with this 20 yr old when I was on my first trip to Tokyo. She wanted to be with me, but had no idea what she was doing, was stiff as a mannequin. I got her to relax a bit (in her case, in part, by laying on my back and telling her to kiss me, that worked with her). I wasn’t even going to fuck her, but she loved the experience, changed her plans mid-sex so she could spend the night.
I did fuck her, but “mastubation assistant” is very close to what that was like for me. I think masturbating would have been a little hotter, actually. Ha.
But she is still one of my favorite sexual experience, while being some of the worst sex ever. It was great to lead her, to take her, to have her love the whole thing. Her “salient feature” was not just her young body, but her naivete.
And I can relate this to the Velvet Mouthed Mom (which I have now sexed). It was a good experience too, because she had “at least one salient feature” to her body (her face, her lips), and because she loved it. Sex with her, was notably better than the 20 yr old. YMMV, but in this case, this is true.
If we could figure out a system or a strategy to explain these boner mysteries I’m all years.
Certain girls their energy combined with mine it would be just insane + incredible. I think it’s a certain ‘type’ I have preference for, that may not mesh with other dudes. Sometimes we would fuck twice, then go out for dinner or drinks and as we arrive at the bar my cock is rock hard again, and we would go again.
I’ve yet to bang a second woman over 30 however, so I’m not sure the same standards will apply to me.
Sometimes it’s chemistry, sometimes it’s the body/face whatever. Sometimes it’s the mystery.
Daygame in shitsville makes a good point, if there’s a salient feature that you like and she has it, we will gloss over a lot else.