A Dream: RSD Free Tour Review
I had a dream I went to an RSD Free Tour Event. Any similarity to actual events is purely a coincidence. This is a piece of creative writing and is in no way based on reality. I’m a complete fool and everything I say is madness. Everyone knows it.
With that said, here is an account of that dream:
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Ugggg. That was so painful.
Julian is a very smart guy. I’ve studied some of his Pimp product. And his 10 Game product. Excellent content. I quote him sometimes. I think he is clearly one of the best minds in game. We have all seen infield footage of the guy and he kills it. He’s a monster — and I mean that in a good way. I think he is worth modeling as you try to develop your mindset. And yet…
I “recently” walked out of his free talk. I was thinking of “social freedom” as I thought of how to leave… I waited until someone asked a question and I split. I wish I had walked out earlier.
The talk was an unorganized “giggle fest.” A complete waste of time. And after looking up to the guy in the way I do, it was surreal to be in front of him and have those thoughts running through my head, “why am I here?”
I know he has to do these talks all the time. And it’s unrealistic to expect miracles even at a premium, let alone for free. But a basic overview of his most generic points would have 1000% more value than what went on in that room. And I just got the text from RSD asking if I’m ready to sign up for his upcoming paid program… I can’t imagine who would want more after his “free talk.” You’d have to go on pure faith from what you know he has done in the past.
Want to see Julian drop real value:
“Fun, carefree, passion.”
— RSD Julian
^ I read this in an internet forum somewhere. That is simple, but excellent content. If you can imagine Julian talking about those points… you would have something worth a good listen.
I’d highly recommend you check out RSD’s Pimp Game product. Unlike what I saw at the event, that product is really good.
I know this post isn’t “bringing good emotions.” And RSD taught me that concept, too — I think it was Julian himself. But this is a “the emperor has no clothes” moment. I won’t disclose any info from that talk (save you the pain), but let’s say, it essentially had no value to me. And a room full of guys giggled and cheered him on. I’m genuinely curious about what those guys were getting out of that talk.
My friend The Cigar was recently booted out of an RSD forum. He said it was “a cult.” And I agreed, but in a mostly positive way… dudes really want to get laid. RSD can absolutely help you do that. Of course they have a cult-like following… in many ways, I am part of it. But this talk was not about learning about girls. It was about being in a cult. It was about getting a moment in front of a cult leader. And the giggle-boys were loving it. And it was sad and boring.
Yuck. It’s so much more honest and real to be out of that room. I wonder if anyone else was thinking that? I wonder if anyone else left?
I’ll take this moment to double down on my love for RSD, and everything I’ve learned from them — mostly from Tyler, but even Tim, Ozzy, Todd, Max, Jeffy, etc. Genius moments from all of them… based on the very real experience they all have as players, and their expertise in explaining what they have earned. I am grateful. I’ve been studying Tyler’s Hotseat at Home, and it’s full of genius moments. Blueprint, which like this talk starts off a bit retarded, but goes on to be a masterful product. I think about it all the time, and I know many men that quote Tyler from that product. Full “yes” for RSD. Triple “yes” for Tyler.
But I wish I could get the last hour of my life back.
When we’re talking about quality and real value, here’s another nod at Krauser. And his level of organization and professionalism. The value of the content he brings, even to a “free talk.” Another “yes” for Krauser.
Being organized is masculine. Structure is masculine. Chaos and giggles… I’d put that on the feminine end of the spectrum. But I guess if you’re focused on nightgame and scatter-brained party girls, if that’s the world you’re in every night, maybe that’s what you need? That kind of justification feels like a generous read of what I saw.
And to Krauser again, for his work with the concept of Sigma. If Julian was “alpha” tonight — and he was alpha because of the pack of fan boys made him so — Sigma is knowing that being a part of that particular hierarchy is to tool yourself. Maybe that’s THE thing I learned from that talk. Sigma is about knowing that “being at the ‘in’ spot” is often a circle-jerk. A type of “golden cage.” Going it alone may mean you don’t have the company of the “ship of fools,” but you’re likely better off that way. There was a lot of metaphorical moments as I watched those guys snicker and worship emptiness.
So much of life is like that. Like pedestalizing a “paper hottie” because she meets some false-standard, that in real life is certainly not worth chasing. As bluepill as anything else.
Julian went from hero to “paper hero” in that talk. I know he’s more than that… but that was the impression.
And the herd was loving it… I guess they loved it for the opportunity to see themselves reflected back in each other’s faces. Pukey cult stuff.
I love the camaraderie of game. The forums where we help each other. All the excellent videos, blogs and comments. That’s how we show each other “the light.” This was the dark side of all that. It was like sitting in locker room watching a an inane sitcom. Terrible company and shit content.
I was very much ready to sign up for the next Hotseat. I think I’ll still do it, but probably not if it’s Julian. This talk was the opposite of good marketing.
That’s too bad. Too bad for RSD. And too bad for me to have to witness that.
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And then I woke up, and realized while there may be some truth-like moments in the complete and utter fiction above… it was just a dream. Some nonsense in my head… and nothing more.
I hope next time I dream of something more interesting.
For now… I’ve almost already forgotten it… what? I can’t even remember.
Viva daygame.
Nice dream. Is Krauser still your favorite for Daygame? I’m always curious your opinion as you cover a lot of material.
It was a terrible dream. Glad it’s over. : ]
>> Is Krauser still your favorite for Daygame?
Yeah. I don’t see that changing. He’s one of my favorite minds in game… even beyond daygame, I think he really understands mating/dating… particularly if you want to be bachelor, but most of what he talks about in terms of theory would be true in an LTR as well.
— https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2RoRRRU1WZo&t=2s
Check this series out… very good. I listened to it again last night as I wrote this post.
But you don’t have to pick a favorite… study them all. I really like Paul Janka as well. Tom’s Badass Buddha is a good product, and his two books (Daygame and Travels) are excellent. I’ve studied Yad. Jon Matrix Effortless is a very good product. The Daygame.com conference is good. Yad’s footage in Toronto is good to see. I think I spelled a lot of this out in my Notes for Beginner Daygamers.
Beyond those guys, I like Tyler (obviously), Braddock from Lovesystems, Jared Psych was an interesting guy to study. I liked Nick Sparks (T21C) quite a bit. I mentioned Sinn recently… I really like him. I linked to Jason Savage’s talk in the post above. And of course, Lance Mason…
Lance and Tyler and Krauser… if I had to pick three… they are the smartest guys in game, for my interests.
Well… ^ them, and Yohami. Yohami is fucking excellent. Super rich thinker… he is as good as I’ve ever heard. We are really lucky to see his comments here. I’m sure Lance/Tyler/Krauser would respect Yohami’s POV.
But study everyone… I’m sure there are smarter guys out there… in the history of the world… some Casanova… but I haven’t found anyone better than those guys.
I hear you. Between work and making money, hobbies, investments, travel, current women and all other things in life I don’t have as much time. I prefer to pick one and focus which is why I asked as someone that doesn’t have as much time as you.
I know there are many to study. I feel they are all good as you mentioned. I do know Paul Janka and some Lance and prefer what little I know of Krauser. I actually like Tom too.
I was hoping to narrow it down to one for daygame. I think I will pick Krauser as you could spend months just reviewing his content. And most likely a year using it …at least.
Nash: “Study everyone.”
Supertramp: “I don’t have as much time. I think I will pick Krauser.”
Rivelino: “I think for beginners and intermediates, Tom is the best.”
Rivelino: “I think for beginners and intermediates, Tom is the best.”
That’s easy then – I like Tom already and have plenty of his to go through. Thanks
Viva day game indeed. I liked your observation on the “dark side” vs the “light side” of thing (not just because I’m a Star Wars fan). I think you’ve tapped into a great topic…the camaraderie and community of Game helps the individuals as well as helps the whole community. The inverse side of that, is when people try to exploit the knowledge seeking of others to promote their own personal agendas that ignore some acknowledgement of the community as a whole. some great food for thought.
>> the camaraderie and community of Game helps the individuals as well as helps the whole community.
Yeah. I actually didn’t like guys until I got into the community. I had a lot of good male friends… but I thought of them as exceptions. This was all basically feminism convincing me men sucked… clearly, I’m not a feminist anymore, I do not think men should have anything to do w/ that movement.
As I got into game, I saw men being real… I saw them struggle… I saw them help each other… I saw them kick ass. A lot of guys have reached out to me over the years, became wings, friends and mentors. I’m grateful.
This plays into your blog post very well:
— https://alphajedi.com/2017/05/18/friends-like-these/
The way other men give you feedback as you’re learning… the “shut the fuck up, you’re no snowflake, this is how its done, she is not “special,” do this.. or suffer, you poor ignorant bastard!!!!” That kind of ass-kicking helps sober you up and move you along.
I love game… we tell the truth. And we know the truth… because we can test it. And her thighs confirm our theories.
Red pillers and the men of game. A masculine education. Yes to that.
Cheers
nash, i haven’t studied a lot of the men you have studied, so i can’t comment on them, and obviously i love tom and krauser and yohami too, but one question, have you listened to LOVEDROP’s 13 audio cd series?? i thought it was amazing. lovedrop was mystery’s main wing to the point that mystery co-wrote his book with him, and some even say that lovedrop wrote the whole thing.
I don’t think so… Maybe. Let me check.
And I thought Tyler wrote MM. : ]
Maybe I’m wrong about all that.
“I’m a complete fool and everything I say is madness.”
i love it! interesting dream.
— https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w65qBE-5fWg
This is Julian being solid. I gave this one a solid listen this week, and will again. There is a lot to learn from this talk.